the professor at the breakfast table-第56节
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when he thinks very often of the given young lady; and names her
very seldom;
What do you say about it; my charming young expert in that sweet
science in which; perhaps; a long experience is not the first of
qualifications?
But we don't know anything about this young man; except that he is
good…looking; and somewhat high…spirited; and strong…limbed; and has
a generous style of nature;all very promising; but by no means
proving that he is a proper lover for Iris; whose heart we turned
inside out when we opened that sealed book of hers。
Ah; my dear young friend! When your mamma then; if you will believe
it; a very slight young lady; with very pretty hair and figurecame
and told her mamma that your papa hadhadasked No; no; no! she
could n't say it; but her motheroh the depth of maternal sagacity!
guessed it all without another word! When your mother; I say;
came and told her mother she was engaged; and your grandmother told
your grandfather; how much did they know of the intimate nature of
the young gentleman to whom she had pledged her existence? I will
not be so hard as to ask how much your respected mamma knew at that
time of the intimate nature of your respected papa; though; if we
should compare a young girl's man…as…she…thinks…him with a forty…
summered matron's man…as…she…finds…him; I have my doubts as to
whether the second would be a facsimile of the first in most cases。
The idea that in this world each young person is to wait until he or
she finds that precise counterpart who alone of all creation was
meant for him or her; and then fall instantly in love with it; is
pretty enough; only it is not Nature's way。 It is not at all
essential that all pairs of human beings should be; as we sometimes
say of particular couples; 〃born for each other。〃 Sometimes a man
or a woman is made a great deal better and happier in the end for
having had to conquer the faults of the one beloved; and make the
fitness not found at first; by gradual assimilation。 There is a
class of good women who have no right to marry perfectly good men;
because they have the power of saving those who would go to ruin but
for the guiding providence of a good wife。 I have known many such
cases。 It is the most momentous question a woman is ever called
upon to decide; whether the faults of the man she loves are beyond
remedy and will drag her down; or whether she is competent to be his
earthly redeemer and lift him to her own level。
A person of genius should marry a person of character。 Genius does
not herd with genius。 The musk…deer and the civet…cat are never
found in company。 They don't care for strange scents;they like
plain animals better than perfumed ones。 Nay; if you will have the
kindness to notice; Nature has not gifted my lady musk…deer with the
personal peculiarity by which her lord is so widely known。
Now when genius allies itself with character; the world is very apt
to think character has the best of the bargain。 A brilliant woman
marries a plain; manly fellow; with a simple intellectual
mechanism;we have all seen such cases。 The world often stares a
good deal and wonders。 She should have taken that other; with a far
more complex mental machinery。 She might have had a watch with the
philosophical compensation…balance; with the metaphysical index
which can split a second into tenths; with the musical chime which
can turn every quarter of an hour into melody。 She has chosen a
plain one; that keeps good time; and that is all。
Let her alone! She knows what she is about。 Genius has an
infinitely deeper reverence for character than character can have
for genius。 To be sure; genius gets the world's praise; because its
work is a tangible product; to be bought; or had for nothing。 It
bribes the common voice to praise it by presents of speeches; poems;
statues; pictures; or whatever it can please with。 Character
evolves its best products for home consumption; but; mind you; it
takes a deal more to feed a family for thirty years than to make a
holiday feast for our neighbors once or twice in our lives。 You
talk of the fire of genius。 Many a blessed woman; who dies unsung
and unremembered; has given out more of the real vital heat that
keeps the life in human souls; without a spark flitting through her
humble chimney to tell the world about it; than would set a dozen
theories smoking; or a hundred odes simmering; in the brains of so
many men of genius。 It is in latent caloric; if I may borrow a
philosophical expression; that many of the noblest hearts give out
the life that warms them。 Cornelia's lips grow white; and her pulse
hardly warms her thin fingers;but she has melted all the ice out
of the hearts of those young Gracchi; and her lost heat is in the
blood of her youthful heroes。 We are always valuing the soul's
temperature by the thermometer of public deed or word。 Yet the
great sun himself; when he pours his noonday beams upon some vast
hyaline boulder; rent from the eternal ice…quarries; and floating
toward the tropics; never warms it a fraction above the thirty…two
degrees of Fahrenheit that marked the moment when the first drop
trickled down its side。
How we all like the spirting up of a fountain; seemingly against the
law that makes water everywhere slide; roll; leap; tumble headlong;
to get as low as the earth will let it! That is genius。 But what
is this transient upward movement; which gives us the glitter and
the rainbow; to that unsleeping; all…present force of gravity; the
same yesterday; to…day; and forever; (if the universe be eternal;)
the great outspread hand of God himself; forcing all things down
into their places; and keeping them there? Such; in smaller
proportion; is the force of character to the fitful movements of
genius; as they are or have been linked to each other in many a
household; where one name was historic; and the other; let me say
the nobler; unknown; save by some faint reflected ray; borrowed from
its lustrous companion。
Oftentimes; as I have lain swinging on the water; in the swell of
the Chelsea ferry…boats; in that long; sharp…pointed; black cradle
in which I love to let the great mother rock me; I have seen a tall
ship glide by against the tide; as if drawn by some invisible
towline; with a hundred strong arms pulling it。 Her sails hung
unfilled; her streamers were drooping; she had neither side…wheel
nor stern…wheel; still she moved on; stately; in serene triumph; as
if with her own life。 But I knew that on the other side of the
ship; hidden beneath the great hulk that swam so majestically; there
was a little toiling steam…tug; with heart of fire and arms of iron;
that was hugging it close and dragging it bravely on; and I knew;
that; if the little steam…tug untwined her arms and left the tall
ship; it would wallow and roll about; and drift hither and thither;
and go off with the refluent tide; no man knows whither。 And so I
have known more than one genius; high…decked; full…freighted; wide…
sailed; gay…pennoned; that; but for the bare toiling arms; and
brave; warm; beating heart of the faithful little wife; that nestled
close in his shadow; and clung to him; so that no wind or wave could
part them; and dragged him on against all the tide of circumstance;
would soon have gone down the stream and been heard of no more。
No; I am too much a lover of genius; I sometimes think; and too
often get impatient with dull people; so that; in their weak talk;
where nothing is taken for granted; I look forward to some future
possible state of development; when a gesture passing between a
beatified human soul and an archangel shall signify as much as the
complete history of a planet; from the time when it curdled to the
time when its sun was burned out。 And yet; when a strong brain is
weighed with a true heart; it seems to me like balancing a bubble
against a wedge of gold。
It takes a very true man to be a fitting companion for a woman of
genius; but not a very great one。 I am not sure that she will not
embroider her ideal better on a plain ground than on one with a
brilliant pattern already worked in its texture。 But as the very
essence of genius is truthfulness; contact with realities; (which
are always ideas behind shows of form or language;) nothing is so
contemptible as falsehood and pretence in its eyes。 Now it is not
easy to find a perfectly true woman; and it is very hard to find a
perfectly true man。 And a woman of genius; who has the sagacity to
choose such a one as her companion; shows more of the divine gift in
so doing than in her finest talk or her most brilliant work of
letters or of art。
I have been a good while coming at a secret; for which I wished to
prepare you before telling it。 I think there is a kindly feeling
growing up between Iris and our young Marylander。 Not that I
suppose there is any distinct understanding between them; bu