letters to his son, 1749-第9节
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d deserves your attention； as does also the famous picture of the Cornaro Family； by Titian。 A taste for sculpture and painting is； in my mind； as becoming as a taste for fiddling and piping is unbecoming； a man of fashion。 The former is connected with history and poetry； the latter； with nothing that I know of but bad company。
Learn Italian as fast as ever you can； that you may be able to understand it tolerably； and speak it a little before you go to Rome and Naples： There are many good historians in that language； and excellent translations of the ancient Greek and Latin authors； which are called the Collana； but the only two Italian poets that deserve your acquaintance are Ariosto and Tasso； and they undoubtedly have great merit。
Make my compliments to Mr。 Harte； and tell him that I have consulted about his leg； and that if it was only a sprain； he ought to keep a tight bandage about the part； for a considerable time； and do nothing else to it。 Adieu！ 'Jubeo te bene valere'。
LETTER LXXIV
LONDON； July 6； O。 S。 1749。
DEAR BOY： As I am now no longer in pain about your health； which I trust is perfectly restored； and as； by the various accounts I have had of you； I need not be in pain about your learning； our correspondence may； for the future； turn upon less important points； comparatively； though still very important ones： I mean； the knowledge of the world； decorum； manners； address； and all those （commonly called little） accomplishments； which are absolutely necessary to give greater accomplishments their full； value and lustre。
Had I the admirable ring of Gyges； which rendered the wearer invisible； and had I； at the same time； those magic powers； which were very common formerly； but are now very scarce； of transporting myself； by a wish； to any given place； my first expedition would be to Venice； there to RECONNOITRE you； unseen myself。 I would first take you in the morning； at breakfast with Mr。 Harte； and attend to your natural and unguarded conversation with him； from whence； I think； I could pretty well judge of your natural turn of mind。 How I should rejoice if I overheard you asking him pertinent questions upon useful subjects！ or making judicious reflections upon the studies of that morning； or the occurrences of the former day！ Then I would follow you into the different companies of the day； and carefully observe in what manner you presented yourself to； and behaved yourself with； men of sense and dignity； whether your address was respectful； and yet easy； your air modest； and yet unembarrassed； and I would； at the same time； penetrate into their thoughts； in order to know whether your first 'abord' made that advantageous impression upon their fancies； which a certain address； air； and manners； never fail doing。 I would afterward follow you to the mixed companies of the evening； such as assemblies； suppers； etc。； and there watch if you trifled gracefully and genteelly： if your good…breeding and politeness made way for your parts and knowledge。 With what pleasure should I hear people cry out； 'Che garbato cavaliere； com' e pulito； disinvolto； spiritoso'！ If all these things turned out to my mind； I would immediately assume my own shape； become visible； and embrace you： but if the contrary happened； I would preserve my invisibility； make the best of my way home again； and sink my disappointment upon you and the world。 As； unfortunately； these supernatural powers of genii； fairies； sylphs； and gnomes； have had the fate of the oracles they succeeded； and have ceased for some time； I must content myself （till we meet naturally； and in the common way） with Mr。 Harte's written accounts of you； and the verbal ones which I now and then receive from people who have seen you。 However； I believe it would do you no harm； if you would always imagine that I were present； and saw and heard everything you did and said。
There is a certain concurrence of various little circumstances which compose what the French call 'l'aimable'； and which； now that you are entering into the world； you ought to make it your particular study to acquire。 Without them； your learning will be pedantry； your conversation often improper； always unpleasant； and your figure； however good in itself； awkward and unengaging。 A diamond； while rough； has indeed its intrinsic value； but； till polished； is of no use； and would neither be sought for nor worn。 Its great lustre； it is true； proceeds from its solidity and strong cohesion of parts； but without the last polish； it would remain forever a dirty； rough mineral； in the cabinets of some few curious collectors。 You have； I hope； that solidity and cohesion of parts； take now as much pains to get the lustre。 Good company； if you make the right use of it； will cut you into shape； and give you the true brilliant polish。 A propos of diamonds： I have sent you by Sir James Gray； the King's Minister； who will be at Venice about the middle of September； my own diamond buckles； which are fitter for your young feet than for my old ones： they will properly adorn you； they would only expose me。 If Sir James finds anybody whom he can trust； and who will be at Venice before him； he will send them by that person； but if he should not； and that you should be gone from Venice before he gets there； he will in that case give them to your banker； Monsieur Cornet； to forward to you； wherever you may then be。 You are now of an age； at which the adorning your person is not only not ridiculous； but proper and becoming。 Negligence would imply either an indifference about pleasing； or else an insolent security of pleasing； without using those means to which others are obliged to have recourse。 A thorough cleanliness in your person is as necessary for your own health； as it is not to be offensive to other people。 Washing yourself； and rubbing your body and limbs frequently with a fleshbrush； will conduce as much to health as to cleanliness。 A particular attention to the cleanliness of your mouth； teeth； hands； and nails； is but common decency； in order not to offend people's eyes and noses。
I send you here inclosed a letter of recommendation to the Duke of Nivernois； the French Ambassador at Rome； who is； in my opinion； one of the prettiest men I ever knew in my life。 I do not know a better model for you to form yourself upon； pray observe and frequent him as much as you can。 He will show you what manners and graces are。 I shall； by successive posts； send you more letters； both for Rome and Naples； where it will be your own fault entirely if you do not keep the very best company。
As you will meet swarms of Germans wherever you go； I desire that you will constantly converse with them in their own language； which will improve you in that language； and be； at the same time； an agreeable piece of civility to them。
Your stay in Italy will； I do not doubt； make you critically master of Italian； I know it may； if you please； for it is a very regular； and consequently a very easy language。 Adieu！ God bless you！
LETTER LXXV
LONDON； July 20； O。 S。 1749。
DEAR BOY： I wrote to Mr。 Harte last Monday； the 17th； O。 S。； in answer to his letter of the 20th June； N。 S。； which I had received but the day before； after an interval of eight posts； during which I did not know whether you or he existed； and indeed I began to think that you did not。 By that letter you ought at this time to be at Venice； where I hope you are arrived in perfect health； after the baths of Tiefler； in case you have made use of them。 I hope they are not hot baths； if your lungs are still tender。
Your friend； the Comte d'Einsiedlen； is arrived here： he has been at my door； and I have been at his； but we have not yet met。 He will dine with me some day this week。 Comte Lascaris inquires after you very frequently； and with great affection； pray answer the letter which I forwarded to you a great while ago from him。 You may inclose your answer to me； and I will take care to give it him。 Those attentions ought never to be omitted； they cost little； and please a great deal； but the neglect of them offends more than you can yet imagine。 Great merit； or great failings； will make you be respected or despised； but trifles； little attentions； mere nothings； either done； or neglected； will make you either liked or disliked； in the general run of the world。 Examine yourself why you like such and such people； and dislike such and such others； and you will find； that those different sentiments proceed from very slight causes。 Moral virtues are the foundation of society in general； and of friendship in particular； but attentions； manners； and graces； both adorn and strengthen them。 My heart is so set upon your pleasing； and consequently succeeding in the world； that possibly I have already （and probably shall again） repeat the same things over and over to you。 However； to err； if I do err； on the surer side； I shall continue to communicate to you those observations upon the world which long experience has enabled me to make； and which I have generally found to hold true。 Your youth and talents； armed with my experience； may go a great way； and that armor is very much at your service； if you please to wear it。 I premise that
