letters to his son, 1749-第6节
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ld otherwise do； let your intrinsic merit and knowledge be ever so great。 If that would be your case with me； as it really would； judge how much worse it might be with others； who have not the same affection and partiality for you； and to whose hearts you must make your own way。
Remember to write to me constantly while you are in Italy； in the German language and character； till you can write to me in Italian； which will not be till you have been some time at Rome。
Adieu； my dear boy： may you turn out what Mr。 Harte and I wish you。 I must add that if you do not； it will be both your own fault and your own misfortune。
LETTER LXX
LONDON； May 15； O。 S。 1749。
DEAR BOY： This letter will； I hope； find you settled to your serious studies； and your necessary exercises at Turin； after the hurry and the dissipation of the Carnival at Venice。 I mean that your stay at Turin should； and I flatter myself that it will； be an useful and ornamental period of your education； but at the same time I must tell you； that all my affection for you has never yet given me so much anxiety； as that which I now feel。 While you are in danger； I shall be in fear； and you are in danger at Turin。 Mr。 Harte will by his care arm you as well as he can against it； but your own good sense and resolution can alone make you invulnerable。 I am informed； there are now many English at the Academy at Turin； and I fear those are just so many dangers for you to encounter。 Who they are； I do not know； but I well know the general ill conduct； the indecent behavior； and the illiberal views； of my young countrymen。 abroad； especially wherever they are in numbers together。 Ill example is of itself dangerous enough； but those who give it seldom stop there； they add their infamous exhortations and invitations； and； if they fail； they have recourse to ridicule； which is harder for one of your age and inexperience to withstand than either of the former。 Be upon your guard； therefore； against these batteries； which will all be played upon you。 You are not sent abroad to converse with your own countrymen： among them； in general； you will get； little knowledge； no languages； and； I am sure； no manners。 I desire that you will form no connections； nor （what they impudently call） friendships with these people； which are； in truth； only combinations and conspiracies against good morals and good manners。 There is commonly； in young people； a facility that makes them unwilling to refuse anything that is asked of them； a 'mauvaise honte' that makes them ashamed to refuse； and； at the same time； an ambition of pleasing and shining in the company they keep： these several causes produce the best effect in good company； but the very worst in bad。 If people had no vices but their own； few would have so many as they have。 For my own part； I would sooner wear other people's clothes than their vices； and they would sit upon me just as well。 I hope you will have none； but if ever you have； I beg； at least； they may be all your own。 Vices of adoption are； of all others； the most disgraceful and unpardonable。 There are degrees in vices； as well as in virtues； and I must do my countrymen the justice to say； that they generally take their vices in the lower degree。 Their gallantry is the infamous mean debauchery of stews； justly attended and rewarded by the loss of their health； as well as their character。 Their pleasures of the table end in beastly drunkenness； low riot； broken windows； and very often （as they well deserve）； broken bones。 They game for the sake of the vice； not of the amusement； and therefore carry it to excess； undo； or are undone by their companions。 By such conduct； and in such company abroad； they come home； the unimproved； illiberal； and ungentlemanlike creatures that one daily sees them； that is； in the park and in the streets； for one never meets them in good company； where they have neither manners to present themselves； nor merit to be received。 But； with the manners of footmen and grooms； they assume their dress too； for you must have observed them in the streets here； in dirty blue frocks； with oaken sticks in their ends； and their hair greasy and unpowdered； tucked up under their hats of an enormous size。 Thus finished and adorned by their travels； they become the disturbers of play…houses； they break the windows； and commonly the landlords； of the taverns where they drink； and are at once the support； the terror； and the victims； of the bawdy…houses they frequent。 These poor mistaken people think they shine； and so they do indeed； but it is as putrefaction shines in the dark。
I am not now preaching to you； like an old fellow； upon their religious or moral texts； I am persuaded that you do not want the best instructions of that kind： but I am advising you as a friend； as a man of the world； as one who would not have you old while you are young； but would have you to take all the pleasures that reason points out； and that decency warrants。 I will therefore suppose； for argument's sake （for upon no other account can it be supposed）； that all the vices above mentioned were perfectly innocent in themselves： they would still degrade； vilify； and sink those who practiced them； would obstruct their rising in the world by debasing their characters； and give them low turn of mind； and manners absolutely inconsistent with their making any figure in upper life and great business。
What I have now said； together with your own good sense； is； I hope； sufficient to arm you against the seduction； the invitations； or the profligate exhortations （for I cannot call them temptations） of those unfortunate young people。 On the other hand； when they would engage you in these schemes； content yourself with a decent but steady refusal； avoid controversy upon such plain points。 You are too young to convert them； and； I trust； too wise to be converted by them。 Shun them not only in reality； but even in appearance； if you would be well received in good company； for people will always be shy of receiving a man who comes from a place where the plague rages； let him look ever so healthy。 There are some expressions； both in French and English； and some characters； both in those two and in other countries； which have； I dare say； misled many young men to their ruin。 'Une honnete debauche； une jolie debauche； 〃An agreeable rake； a man of pleasure。〃 Do not think that this means debauchery and profligacy； nothing like it。 It means； at most； the accidental and unfrequent irregularities of youth and vivacity； in opposition to dullness； formality； and want of spirit。 A 'commerce galant'； insensibly formed with a woman of fashion； a glass of wine or two too much； unwarily taken in the warmth and joy of good company； or some innocent frolic； by which nobody is injured； are the utmost bounds of that life of pleasure； which a man of sense and decency； who has a regard for his character； will allow himself； or be allowed by others。 Those who transgress them in the hopes of shining； miss their aim； and become infamous； or at least； contemptible。
The length or shortness of your stay at Turin will sufficiently inform me （even though Mr。 Harte should not） of your conduct there； for； as I have told you before； Mr。 Harte has the strictest orders to carry you away immediately from thence； upon the first and least symptom of infection that he discovers about you； and I know him to be too conscientiously scrupulous； and too much your friend and mine not to execute them exactly。 Moreover； I will inform you； that I shall have constant accounts of your behavior from Comte Salmour； the Governor of the Academy； whose son is now here； and my particular friend。 I have； also； other good channels of intelligence； of which I do not apprise you。 But； supposing that all turns out well at Turin； yet； as I propose your being at Rome for the jubilee； at Christmas； I desire that you will apply yourself diligently to your exercises of dancing； fencing； and riding at the Academy； as well for the sake of your health and growth； as to fashion and supple you。 You must not neglect your dress neither； but take care to be 'bien mis'。 Pray send for the best operator for the teeth at Turin； where I suppose there is some famous one； and let him put yours in perfect order； and then take care to keep them so； afterward； yourself。 You had very good teeth； and I hope they are so still； but even those who have bad ones； should keep them clean； for a dirty mouth is； in my mind； ill manners。 In short； neglect nothing that can possibly please。 A thousand nameless little things； which nobody can describe； but which everybody feels； conspire to form that WHOLE of pleasing； as the several pieces of a Mosaic work though； separately； of little beauty or value； when properly joined； form those beautiful figures which please everybody。 A look； a gesture； an attitude； a tone of voice； all bear their parts in the great work of pleasing。 The art of pleasing is more particularly necessary in your intended profession than perhaps in any other； it is； in truth； the first half of your business； for if you do not please the court you are sent to； you will be of very little use to the court you are sent from。 Please t
