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their hair grow long before; and some behind; shaving close the rest:
where parents let out their children; and husbands their wives; to their
guests to hire: where a man may get his own mother with child; and
fathers make use of their own daughters or sons; without scandal: where;
at their solemn feasts; they interchangeably lend their children to one
another; without any consideration of nearness of blood。 In one place;
men feed upon human flesh; in another; 'tis reputed a pious office for a
man to kill his father at a certain age; elsewhere; the fathers dispose
of their children; whilst yet in their mothers' wombs; some to be
preserved and carefully brought up; and others to be abandoned or made
away。 Elsewhere the old husbands lend their wives to young men; and in
another place they are in common without offence; in one place
particularly; the women take it for a mark of honour to have as many gay
fringed tassels at the bottom of their garment; as they have lain with
several men。 Moreover; has not custom made a republic of women
separately by themselves? has it not put arms into their hands; and made
them raise armies and fight battles? And does she not; by her own
precept; instruct the most ignorant vulgar; and make them perfect in
things which all the philosophy in the world could never beat into the
heads of the wisest men? For we know entire nations; where death was not
only despised; but entertained with the greatest triumph; where children
of seven years old suffered themselves to be whipped to death; without
changing countenance; where riches were in such contempt; that the
meanest citizen would not have deigned to stoop to take up a purse of
crowns。 And we know regions; very fruitful in all manner of provisions;
where; notwithstanding; the most ordinary diet; and that they are most
pleased with; is only bread; cresses; and water。 Did not custom;
moreover; work that miracle in Chios that; in seven hundred years; it was
never known that ever maid or wife committed any act to the prejudice of
her honour?
To conclude; there is nothing; in my opinion; that she does not; or may
not do; and therefore; with very good reason it is that Pindar calls her
the ruler of the world。 He that was seen to beat his father; and
reproved for so doing; made answer; that it was the custom of their
family; that; in like manner; his father had beaten his grandfather; his
grandfather his great…grandfather; 〃And this;〃 says he; pointing to his
son; 〃when he comes to my age; shall beat me。〃 And the father; whom the
son dragged and hauled along the streets; commanded him to stop at a
certain door; for he himself; he said; had dragged his father no farther;
that being the utmost limit of the hereditary outrage the sons used to
practise upon the fathers in their family。 It is as much by custom as
infirmity; says Aristotle; that women tear their hair; bite their nails;
and eat coals and earth; and more by custom than nature that men abuse
themselves with one another。
The laws of conscience; which we pretend to be derived from nature;
proceed from custom; every one; having an inward veneration for the
opinions and manners approved and received amongst his own people;
cannot; without very great reluctance; depart from them; nor apply
himself to them without applause。 In times past; when those of Crete
would curse any one; they prayed the gods to engage him in some ill
custom。 But the principal effect of its power is; so to seize and
ensnare us; that it is hardly in us to disengage ourselves from its
gripe; or so to come to ourselves; as to consider of and to weigh the
things it enjoins。 To say the truth; by reason that we suck it in with
our milk; and that the face of the world presents itself in this posture
to our first sight; it seems as if we were born upon condition to follow
on this track; and the common fancies that we find in repute everywhere
about us; and infused into our minds with the seed of our fathers; appear
to be the most universal and genuine; from whence it comes to pass; that
whatever is off the hinges of custom; is believed to be also off the
hinges of reason; how unreasonably for the most part; God knows。
If; as we who study ourselves have learned to do; every one who hears a
good sentence; would immediately consider how it does in any way touch
his own private concern; every one would find; that it was not so much a
good saying; as a severe lash to the ordinary stupidity of his own
judgment: but men receive the precepts and admonitions of truth; as
directed to the common sort; and never to themselves; and instead of
applying them to their own manners; do only very ignorantly and
unprofitably commit them to memory。 But let us return to the empire of
custom。
Such people as have been bred up to liberty; and subject to no other
dominion but the authority of their own will; look upon all other form of
government as monstrous and contrary to nature。 Those who are inured to
monarchy do the same; and what opportunity soever fortune presents them
with to change; even then; when with the greatest difficulties they have
disengaged themselves from one master; that was troublesome and grievous
to them; they presently run; with the same difficulties; to create
another; being unable to take into hatred subjection itself。
'Tis by the mediation of custom; that every one is content with the place
where he is planted by nature; and the Highlanders of Scotland no more
pant after Touraine; than the Scythians after Thessaly。 Darius asking
certain Greeks what they would take to assume the custom of the Indians;
of eating the dead bodies of their fathers (for that was their use;
believing they could not give them a better nor more noble sepulture than
to bury them in their own bodies); they made answer; that nothing in the
world should hire them to do it; but having also tried to persuade the
Indians to leave their custom; and; after the Greek manner; to burn the
bodies of their fathers; they conceived a still greater horror at the
motion。'Herodotus; iii。 38。' Every one does the same; for use veils
from us the true aspect of things。
〃Nil adeo magnum; nec tam mirabile quidquam
Principio; quod non minuant mirarier omnes Paullatim。〃
'〃There is nothing at first so grand; so admirable; which by degrees
people do not regard with less admiration。〃Lucretius; ii。 1027'
Taking upon me once to justify something in use amongst us; and that was
received with absolute authority for a great many leagues round about us;
and not content; as men commonly do; to establish it only by force of law
and example; but inquiring still further into its origin; I found the
foundation so weak; that I who made it my business to confirm others; was
very near being dissatisfied myself。 'Tis by this receipt that Plato
'Laws; viii。 6。' undertakes to cure the unnatural and preposterous
loves of his time; as one which he esteems of sovereign virtue; namely;
that the public opinion condemns them; that the poets; and all other
sorts of writers; relate horrible stories of them; a recipe; by virtue of
which the most beautiful daughters no more allure their fathers' lust;
nor brothers; of the finest shape and fashion; their sisters' desire; the
very fables of Thyestes; OEdipus; and Macareus; having with the harmony
of their song; infused this wholesome opinion and belief into the tender
brains of children。 Chastity is; in truth; a great and shining virtue;
and of which the utility is sufficiently known; but to treat of it; and
to set it off in its true value; according to nature; is as hard as 'tis
easy to do so according to custom; laws; and precepts。 The fundamental
and universal reasons are of very obscure and difficult research; and our
masters either lightly pass them over; or not daring so much as to touch
them; precipitate themselves into the liberty and protection of custom;
there puffing themselves out and triumphing to their heart's content:
such as will not suffer themselves to be withdrawn from this original
source; do yet commit a greater error; and subject themselves to wild
opinions; witness Chrysippus;'Sextus Empiricus; Pyyrhon。 Hypotyp。; i。
14。' who; in so many of his writings; has strewed the little account he
made of incestuous conjunctions; committed with how near relations
soever。
Whoever would disengage himself from this violent prejudice of custom;
would find several things received with absolute and undoubting opinion;
that have no other support than the hoary head and rivelled face of
ancient usage。 But the mask taken off; and things being referred to the
decision of truth and reason; he will find his judgment as it were
altogether overthrown; and yet restored to a much more sure estate。 For
example; I shall ask him; what can be more strange than to see a people
obliged to obey laws they never understood; bound in all their domestic
affairs; as marriages; donations; wills; sales; and purchases; to rules
they cannot possibly know; being neither written nor published in their
own language; and of which they are of necessity to purchase both the
interpretation and the use? Not ac