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with all our energy; while yet we have it; and to be grateful for 

forever。











CHAPTER XI。 TALK AND TALKERS (6)





II





IN the last paper there was perhaps too much about mere debate; and 

there was nothing said at all about that kind of talk which is 

merely luminous and restful; a higher power of silence; the quiet 

of the evening shared by ruminating friends。  There is something; 

aside from personal preference; to be alleged in support of this 

omission。  Those who are no chimney…cornerers; who rejoice in the 

social thunderstorm; have a ground in reason for their choice。  

They get little rest indeed; but restfulness is a quality for 

cattle; the virtues are all active; life is alert; and it is in 

repose that men prepare themselves for evil。  On the other hand; 

they are bruised into a knowledge of themselves and others; they 

have in a high degree the fencer's pleasure in dexterity displayed 

and proved; what they get they get upon life's terms; paying for it 

as they go; and once the talk is launched; they are assured of 

honest dealing from an adversary eager like themselves。  The 

aboriginal man within us; the cave…dweller; still lusty as when he 

fought tooth and nail for roots and berries; scents this kind of 

equal battle from afar; it is like his old primaeval days upon the 

crags; a return to the sincerity of savage life from the 

comfortable fictions of the civilised。  And if it be delightful to 

the Old Man; it is none the less profitable to his younger brother; 

the conscientious gentleman I feel never quite sure of your urbane 

and smiling coteries; I fear they indulge a man's vanities in 

silence; suffer him to encroach; encourage him on to be an ass; and 

send him forth again; not merely contemned for the moment; but 

radically more contemptible than when he entered。  But if I have a 

flushed; blustering fellow for my opposite; bent on carrying a 

point; my vanity is sure to have its ears rubbed; once at least; in 

the course of the debate。  He will not spare me when we differ; he 

will not fear to demonstrate my folly to my face。



For many natures there is not much charm in the still; chambered 

society; the circle of bland countenances; the digestive silence; 

the admired remark; the flutter of affectionate approval。  They 

demand more atmosphere and exercise; 〃a gale upon their spirits;〃 

as our pious ancestors would phrase it; to have their wits well 

breathed in an uproarious Valhalla。  And I suspect that the choice; 

given their character and faults; is one to be defended。  The 

purely wise are silenced by facts; they talk in a clear atmosphere; 

problems lying around them like a view in nature; if they can be 

shown to be somewhat in the wrong; they digest the reproof like a 

thrashing; and make better intellectual blood。  They stand 

corrected by a whisper; a word or a glance reminds them of the 

great eternal law。  But it is not so with all。  Others in 

conversation seek rather contact with their fellow…men than 

increase of knowledge or clarity of thought。  The drama; not the 

philosophy; of life is the sphere of their intellectual activity。  

Even when they pursue truth; they desire as much as possible of 

what we may call human scenery along the road they follow。  They 

dwell in the heart of life; the blood sounding in their ears; their 

eyes laying hold of what delights them with a brutal avidity that 

makes them blind to all besides; their interest riveted on people; 

living; loving; talking; tangible people。  To a man of this 

description; the sphere of argument seems very pale and ghostly。  

By a strong expression; a perturbed countenance; floods of tears; 

an insult which his conscience obliges him to swallow; he is 

brought round to knowledge which no syllogism would have conveyed 

to him。  His own experience is so vivid; he is so superlatively 

conscious of himself; that if; day after day; he is allowed to 

hector and hear nothing but approving echoes; he will lose his hold 

on the soberness of things and take himself in earnest for a god。  

Talk might be to such an one the very way of moral ruin; the school 

where he might learn to be at once intolerable and ridiculous。



This character is perhaps commoner than philosophers suppose。  And 

for persons of that stamp to learn much by conversation; they must 

speak with their superiors; not in intellect; for that is a 

superiority that must be proved; but in station。  If they cannot 

find a friend to bully them for their good; they must find either 

an old man; a woman; or some one so far below them in the 

artificial order of society; that courtesy may he particularly 

exercised。



The best teachers are the aged。  To the old our mouths are always 

partly closed; we must swallow our obvious retorts and listen。  

They sit above our heads; on life's raised dais; and appeal at once 

to our respect and pity。  A flavour of the old school; a touch of 

something different in their manner … which is freer and rounder; 

if they come of what is called a good family; and often more timid 

and precise if they are of the middle class … serves; in these 

days; to accentuate the difference of age and add a distinction to 

gray hairs。  But their superiority is founded more deeply than by 

outward marks or gestures。  They are before us in the march of man; 

they have more or less solved the irking problem; they have battled 

through the equinox of life; in good and evil they have held their 

course; and now; without open shame; they near the crown and 

harbour。  It may be we have been struck with one of fortune's 

darts; we can scarce be civil; so cruelly is our spirit tossed。  

Yet long before we were so much as thought upon; the like calamity 

befell the old man or woman that now; with pleasant humour; rallies 

us upon our inattention; sitting composed in the holy evening of 

man's life; in the clear shining after rain。  We grow ashamed of 

our distresses; new and hot and coarse; like villainous roadside 

brandy; we see life in aerial perspective; under the heavens of 

faith; and out of the worst; in the mere presence of contented 

elders; look forward and take patience。  Fear shrinks before them 

〃like a thing reproved;〃 not the flitting and ineffectual fear of 

death; but the instant; dwelling terror of the responsibilities and 

revenges of life。  Their speech; indeed; is timid; they report 

lions in the path; they counsel a meticulous footing; but their 

serene; marred faces are more eloquent and tell another story。  

Where they have gone; we will go also; not very greatly fearing; 

what they have endured unbroken; we also; God helping us; will make 

a shift to bear。



Not only is the presence of the aged in itself remedial; but their 

minds are stored with antidotes; wisdom's simples; plain 

considerations overlooked by youth。  They have matter to 

communicate; be they never so stupid。  Their talk is not merely 

literature; it is great literature; classic in virtue of the 

speaker's detachment; studded; like a book of travel; with things 

we should not otherwise have learnt。  In virtue; I have said; of 

the speaker's detachment; … and this is why; of two old men; the 

one who is not your father speaks to you with the more sensible 

authority; for in the paternal relation the oldest have lively 

interests and remain still young。  Thus I have known two young men 

great friends; each swore by the other's father; the father of each 

swore by the other lad; and yet each pair of parent and child were 

perpetually by the ears。  This is typical: it reads like the germ 

of some kindly comedy。



The old appear in conversation in two characters: the critically 

silent and the garrulous anecdotic。  The last is perhaps what we 

look for; it is perhaps the more instructive。  An old gentleman; 

well on in years; sits handsomely and naturally in the bow…window 

of his age; scanning experience with reverted eye; and chirping and 

smiling; communicates the accidents and reads the lesson of his 

long career。  Opinions are strengthened; indeed; but they are also 

weeded out in the course of years。  What remains steadily present 

to the eye of the retired veteran in his hermitage; what still 

ministers to his content; what still quickens his old honest heart 

… these are 〃the real long…lived things〃 that Whitman tells us to 

prefer。  Where youth agrees with age; not where they differ; wisdom 

lies; and it is when the young disciple finds his heart to beat in 

tune with his gray…bearded teacher's that a lesson may be learned。  

I have known one old gentleman; whom I may name; for he in now 

gathered to his stock … Robert Hunter; Sheriff of Dumbarton; and 

author of an excellent law…book still re…edited and republished。  

Whether he was originally big or little is more than I can guess。  

When I knew him he was all fallen away and fallen i

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