letters to his son, 1752-第23节
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se of both foolish and criminal effects。 But it is so much oftener the principle of right things； that though they ought to have a better； yet； considering human nature； that principle is to be encouraged and cherished； in consideration of its effects。 Where that desire is wanting； we are apt to be indifferent； listless； indolent； and inert； we do not exert our powers； and we appear to be as much below ourselves as the vainest man living can desire to appear above what he really is。
As I have made you my confessor； and do not scruple to confess even my weaknesses to you； I will fairly own that I had that vanity； that weakness； if it be one； to a prodigious degree； and； what is more； I confess it without repentance： nay； I am glad I had it； since； if I have had the good fortune to please in the world； it is to that powerful and active principle that I owe it。 I began the world； not with a bare desire； but with an insatiable thirst； a rage of popularity； applause； and admiration。 If this made me do some silly things on one hand； it made me； on the other hand； do almost all the right things that I did； it made me attentive and civil to the women I disliked； and to the men I despised； in hopes of the applause of both： though I neither desired； nor would I have accepted the favors of the one； nor the friendship of the other。 I always dressed； looked； and talked my best； and； I own； was overjoyed whenever I perceived； that by all three； or by any one of them； the company was pleased with me。 To men； I talked whatever I thought would give them the best opinion of my parts and learning； and to women； what I was sure would please them； flattery； gallantry； and love。 And； moreover； I will own to you； under the secrecy of confession； that my vanity has very often made me take great pains to make a woman in love with me； if I could； for whose person I would not have given a pinch of snuff。 In company with men； I always endeavored to outshine； or at least； if possible； to equal the most shining man in it。 This desire elicited whatever powers I had to gratify it； and where I could not perhaps shine in the first； enabled me； at least； to shine in a second or third sphere。 By these means I soon grew in fashion； and when a man is once in fashion； all he does is right。 It was infinite pleasure to me to find my own fashion and popularity。 I was sent for to all parties of pleasure； both of men or women； where； in some measure； I gave the 'ton'。 This gave me the reputation of having had some women of condition； and that reputation； whether true or false； really got me others。 With the men I was a Proteus； and assumed every shape； in order to please them all： among the gay； I was the gayest； among the grave； the gravest； and I never omitted the least attentions of good…breeding； or the least offices of friendship； that could either please； or attach them to me： and accordingly I was soon connected with all the men of any fashion or figure in town。
To this principle of vanity； which philosophers call a mean one； and which I do not； I owe great part of the figure which I have made in life。 I wish you had as much； but I fear you have too little of it； and you seem to have a degree of laziness and listlessness about you that makes you indifferent as to general applause。 This is not in character at your age； and would be barely pardonable in an elderly and philosophical man。 It is a vulgar； ordinary saying； but it is a very true one； that one should always put the best foot foremost。 One should please； shine； and dazzle； wherever it is possible。 At Paris； I am sure you must observe 'que chacun se fait valoir autant qu'il est possible'； and La Bruyere observes； very justly； qu'on ne vaut dans ce monde que ce qu'on veut valoir'： wherever applause is in question； you will never see a French man； nor woman； remiss or negligent。 Observe the eternal attentions and politeness that all people have there for one another。 'Ce n'est pas pour leurs beaux yeux au moins'。 No； but for their own sakes； for commendations and applause。 Let me then recommend this principle of vanity to you； act upon it 'meo periculo'； I promise you it will turn to your account。 Practice all the arts that ever coquette did； to please。 Be alert and indefatigable in making every man admire； and every woman in love with you。 I can tell you too； that nothing will carry you higher in the world。
I have had no letter from you since your arrival at Paris； though you must have been long enough there to have written me two or three。 In about ten or twelve days I propose leaving this place； and going to London； I have found considerable benefit by my stay here； but not all that I want。 Make my compliments to Lord Albemarle。
LETTER CLXXXIII
BATH； November 28； 1752
MY DEAR FRIEND： Since my last to you； I have read Madame Maintenon's 〃Letters〃； I am sure they are genuine； and they both entertained and informed me。 They have brought me acquainted with the character of that able and artful lady； whom I am convinced that I now know much better than her directeur the Abby de Fenelon （afterward Archbishop of Cambray） did； when he wrote her the 185th letter； and I know him the better too for that letter。 The Abby； though brimful of the divine love； had a great mind to be first minister； and cardinal； in order； NO DOUBT； to have an opportunity of doing the more good。 His being 'directeur' at that time to Madame Maintenon； seemed to be a good step toward those views。 She put herself upon him for a saint； and he was weak enough to believe it； he； on the other hand； would have put himself upon her for a saint too； which； I dare say； she did not believe； but both of them knew that it was necessary for them to appear saints to Lewis the Fourteenth； who they were very sure was a bigot。 It is to be presumed； nay； indeed； it is plain by that 185th letter that Madame Maintenon had hinted to her directeur some scruples of conscience； with relation to her commerce with the King； and which I humbly apprehend to have been only some scruples of prudence； at once to flatter the bigot character； and increase the desires of the King。 The pious Abbe； frightened out of his wits； lest the King should impute to the 'directeur' any scruples or difficulties which he might meet with on the part of the lady； writes her the above… mentioned letter； in which he not only bids her not tease the King by advice and exhortations； but to have the utmost submission to his will； and； that she may not mistake the nature of that submission； he tells her it is the same that Sarah had for Abraham； to which submission Isaac perhaps was owing。 No bawd could have written a more seducing letter to an innocent country girl； than the 'directeur' did to his 'penitente'； who I dare say had no occasion for his good advice。 Those who would justify the good 'directeur'； alias the pimp； in this affair； must not attempt to do it by saying that the King and Madame Maintenon were at that time privately married； that the directeur knew it； and that this was the meaning of his 'enigme'。 That is absolutely impossible； for that private marriage must have removed all scruples between the parties； nay； could not have been contracted upon any other principle； since it was kept private； and consequently prevented no public scandal。 It is therefore extremely evident that Madame Maintenon could not be married to the King at the time when she scrupled granting； and when the 'directeur' advised her to grant； those favors which Sarah with so much submission granted to Abraham： and what the 'directeur' is pleased to call 'le mystere de Dieu'； was most evidently a state of concubinage。 The letters are very well worth your reading； they throw light upon many things of those times。
I have just received a letter from Sir William Stanhope； from Lyons； in which he tells me that he saw you at Paris； that he thinks you a little grown； but that you do not make the most of it； for that you stoop still： 'd'ailleurs' his letter was a panegyric of you。
The young Comte de Schullemburg； the Chambellan whom you knew at Hanover； is come over with the King； 'et fait aussi vos eloges'。
Though； as I told you in my last； I have done buying pictures； by way of 'virtu'； yet there are some portraits of remarkable people that would tempt me。 For instance； if you could by chance pick up at Paris； at a reasonable price； and undoubted originals （whether heads； half lengths； or whole lengths； no matter） of Cardinals Richelieu； Mazarin； and Retz； Monsieur de Turenne； le grand Prince de Condo ； Mesdames de Montespan； de Fontanges； de Montbazon； de Sevigne； de Maintenon； de Chevreuse； de Longueville； d'Olonne； etc。； I should be tempted to purchase them。 I am sensible that they can only be met with； by great accident； at family sales and auctions； so I only mention the affair to you eventually。
I do not understand； or else I do not remember； what affair you mean in your last letter； which you think will come to nothing； and for which； you say； I had once a mind that you should take the road again。 Explain it to me。
I shall go to town in four or five days； and carry back with me a little more hearing than I brought； but yet； not half enough for c
