letters to his son, 1748-第24节
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He was eminently illiterate; wrote bad English and spelled it still worse。 He had no share of what is commonly called PARTS: that is; he had no brightness; nothing shining in his genius。 He had most undoubtedly; an excellent good plain understanding with sound judgment。 But these alone; would probably have raised him but something higher than they found him; which was page to King James the Second's queen。 There the Graces protected and promoted him; for while he was an ensign of the Guards; the Duchess of Cleveland; then favorite mistress to King Charles the Second; struck by those very Graces; gave him five thousand pounds; with which he immediately bought an annuity for his life of five hundred pounds a year; of my grandfather Halifax; which was the foundation of his subsequent fortune。 His figure was beautiful; but his manner was irresistible; by either man or woman。 It was by this engaging; graceful manner; that he was enabled; during all his war; to connect the various and jarring powers of the Grand Alliance; and to carry them on to the main object of the war; notwithstanding their private and separate views; jealousies; and wrongheadednesses。 Whatever court he went to (and he was often obliged to go himself to some resty and refractory ones); he as constantly prevailed; and brought them into his measures。 The Pensionary Heinsius; a venerable old minister; grown gray in business; and who had governed the republic of the United Provinces for more than forty years; was absolutely governed by the Duke of Marlborough; as that republic feels to this day。 He was always cool; and nobody ever observed the least variation in his countenance; he could refuse more gracefully than other people could grant; and those who went away from him the most dissatisfied as to the substance of their business; were yet personally charmed with him and; in some degree; comforted by his manner。 With all his gentleness and gracefulness; no man living was more conscious of his situation; nor maintained his dignity better。
With the share of knowledge which you have already gotten; and with the much greater which I hope you will soon acquire; what may you not expect to arrive at; if you join all these graces to it? In your destination particularly; they are in truth half your business: for; if you once gain the affections as well as the esteem of the prince or minister of the court to which you are sent; I will answer for it; that will effectually do the business of the court that sent you; otherwise it is up…hill work。 Do not mistake; and think that these graces which I so often and so earnestly recommend to you; should only accompany important transactions; and be worn only 'les jours de gala'; no; they should; if possible; accompany every; the least thing you do or say; for; if you neglect them in little things; they will leave you in great ones。 I should; for instance; be extremely concerned to see you even drink a cup of coffee ungracefully; and slop yourself with it; by your awkward manner of holding it; nor should I like to see your coat buttoned; or your shoes buckled awry。 But I should be outrageous; if I heard you mutter your words unintelligibly; stammer; in your speech; or hesitate; misplace; and mistake in your narrations; and I should run away from you with greater rapidity; if possible; than I should now run to embrace you; if I found you destitute of all those graces which I have set my heart upon their making you one day; 'omnibus ornatum excellere rebus'。
This subject is inexhaustible; as it extends to everything that is to be said or done: but I will leave it for the present; as this letter is already pretty long。 Such is my desire; my anxiety for your perfection; that I never think I have said enough; though you may possibly think that I have said too much; and though; in truth; if your own good sense is not sufficient to direct you; in many of these plain points; all that I or anybody else can say will be insufficient。 But where you are concerned; I am the insatiable man in Horace; who covets still a little corner more to complete the figure of his field。 I dread every little corner that may deform mine; in which I would have (if possible) no one defect。
I this moment receive yours of the 17th; N。 S。; and cannot condole with you upon the secession of your German 'Commensaux'; who both by your and Mr。 Harte's description; seem to be 'des gens d'une amiable absence'; and; if you can replace them by any other German conversation; you will be a gainer by the bargain。 I cannot conceive; if you understand German well enough to read any German book; how the writing of the German character can be so difficult and tedious to you; the twenty…four letters being very soon learned; and I do not expect that you should write yet with the utmost purity and correctness; as to the language: what I meant by your writing once a fortnight to Grevenkop; was only to make the written character familiar to you。 However; I will be content with one in three weeks or so。
I believe you are not likely to see Mr。 Eliot again soon; he being still in Cornwall with his father; who; I hear; is not likely to recover。 Adieu。
LETTER LVII
LONDON; November 29; O。 S。 1748。
DEAR BOY: I delayed writing to you till I could give you some account of the motions of your friend Mr。 Eliot; for whom I know you have; and very justly; the most friendly concern。 His father and he came to town together; in a post…chaise a fortnight ago; the rest of the family remaining in Cornwall。 His father; with difficulty; survived the journey; and died last Saturday was seven…night。 Both concern and decency confined your friend; till two days ago; when I saw him; he has determined; and I think very prudently; to go abroad again; but how soon; it is yet impossible for him to know; as he must necessarily put his own private affairs in some order first; but I conjecture that he may possibly join you at Turin; sooner; to be sure; not。 I am very sorry that you are likely to be so long without the company and the example of so valuable a friend; and therefore I hope that you will make it up to yourself; as well as you can at this distance; by remembering and following his example。 Imitate that application of his; which has made him know all thoroughly; and to the bottom。 He does not content himself with the surface of knowledge; but works in the mine for it; knowing that it lies deep。 Pope says; very truly; in his 〃Essay on Criticism〃:
A little learning is a dangerous thing; Drink deep; or taste not the Pierian spring。
I shall send you by a ship that goes to Hamburg next week (and by which Hawkins sends Mr。 Harte some things that he wrote for) all those which I propose sending you by Mr。 Eliot; together with a very little box that I am desired to forward to Mr。 Harte。 There will be; likewise; two letters of recommendation for you to Monsieur Andrie and Comte Algarotti; at Berlin; which you will take care to deliver to them; as soon as you shall be rigged and fitted out to appear there。 They will introduce you into the best company; and I depend upon your own good sense for your avoiding of bad。 If you fall into bad and low company there; or anywhere else; you will be irrecoverably lost; whereas; if you keep good company; and company above yourself; your character and your fortune will be immovably fixed。
I have not time to…day; upon account of the meeting of the parliament; to make this letter of the usual length; and indeed; after the volumes that I have written to you; all I can add must be unnecessary。 However; I shall probably; 'ex abundanti'; return soon to my former prolixity; and you will receive more and more last words from; Yours。
LETTER LVIII
LONDON; December 6; O。 S。 1748。
DEAR BOY: I am at present under very great concern for the loss of a most affectionate brother; with whom I had always lived in the closest friendship。 My brother John died last Friday night; of a fit of the gout; which he had had for about a month in his hands and feet; and which fell at last upon his stomach and head。 As he grew; toward the last; lethargic; his end was not painful to himself。 At the distance which you are at from hence; you need not go into mourning upon this occasion; as the time of your mourning would be near over; before you could put it on。
By a ship which sails this week for Hamburg; I shall send you those things which I proposed to have sent you by Mr。 Eliot; viz。; a little box from your Mamma; a less box for Mr。 Harte; Mr。 Locke's book upon education; the print of Carlo Maratti; which I mentioned to you some time ago; and two letters of recommendation; one to Monsieur Andrie and the other to Comte Algarotti; at Berlin。 Both those gentlemen will; I am sure; be as willing as they are able to introduce you into the best company; and I hope you will not (as many of your countrymen are apt to do) decline it。 It is in the best companies only; that you can learn the best manners and that 'tournure'; and those graces; which I have so often recommended to you; as the necessary means of making a figure in the world。
I am most extremely pleased with the account which Mr。 Harte gives me of your progress in