letters to his son, 1750-第18节
按键盘上方向键 ← 或 → 可快速上下翻页，按键盘上的 Enter 键可回到本书目录页，按键盘上方向键 ↑ 可回到本页顶部！
————未阅读完？加入书签已便下次继续阅读！
ether must inevitably （I should think） make you both 'respectable et aimable'； the perfection of a human character。 In that case nothing shall be wanting on my part； and you shall solidly experience all the extent and tenderness of my affection for you； but dread the reverse of both！ Adieu！
P。 S。 When you get to Paris； after you have been to wait on Lord Albemarle； go to see Mr。 Yorke； whom I have particular reasons for desiring that you should be well with； as I shall hereafter explain to you。 Let him know that my orders； and your own inclinations； conspired to make you desire his friendship and protection。
LETTER CXXII
MY DEAR FRIEND： I have sent you so many preparatory letters for Paris； that this； which will meet you there； shall only be a summary of them all。
You have hitherto had more liberty than anybody of your age ever had； and I must do you the justice to own； that you have made a better use of it than most people of your age would have done； but then； though you had not a jailer； you had a friend with you。 At Paris； you will not only be unconfined； but unassisted。 Your own good sense must be your only guide： I have great confidence in it； and am convinced that I shall receive just such accounts of your conduct at Paris as I could wish； for I tell you beforehand； that I shall be most minutely informed of all that you do； and almost of all that you say there。 Enjoy the pleasures of youth； you cannot do better： but refine and dignify them like a man； of parts； let them raise； and not sink； let them adorn and not vilify your character； let them； in short； be the pleasures of a gentleman； and taken with your equals at least； but rather with your superiors； and those chiefly French。
Inquire into the characters of the several Academicians； before you form a connection with any of them； and be most upon your guard against those who make the most court to you。
You cannot study much in the Academy； but you may study usefully there； if you are an economist of your time； and bestow only upon good books those quarters and halves of hours； which occur to everybody in the course of almost every day； and which； at the year's end； amount to a very considerable sum of time。 Let Greek； without fail； share some part of every day； I do not mean the Greek poets； the catches of Anacreon； or the tender complaints of Theocritus； or even the porter…like language of Homer's heroes； of whom all smatterers in Greek know a little； quote often； and talk of always； but I mean Plato； Aristoteles； Demosthenes； and Thucydides； whom none but adepts know。 It is Greek that must distinguish you in the learned world； Latin alone will not： and Greek must be sought to be retained； for it never occurs like Latin。 When you read history or other books of amusement； let every language you are master of have its turn； so that you may not only retain； but improve in everyone。 I also desire that you will converse in German and Italian； with all the Germans and the Italians with whom you converse at all。 This will be a very agreeable and flattering thing to them； and a very useful one to you。
Pray apply yourself diligently to your exercises； for though the doing them well is not supremely meritorious； the doing them ill is illiberal； vulgar； and ridiculous。
I recommend theatrical representations to you； which are excellent at Paris。 The tragedies of Corneille and Racine； and the comedies of Moliere； well attended to； are admirable lessons； both for the heart and the head。 There is not； nor ever was； any theatre comparable to the French。 If the music of the French operas does not please your Italian ear； the words of them； at least； are sense and poetry； which is much more than I can； say of any Italian opera that I ever read or heard in my life。
I send you the inclosed letter of recommendation to Marquis Matignon； which I would have you deliver to him as soon as you can； you will； I am sure； feel the good effects of his warm friendship for me and Lord Bolingbroke； who has also wrote to him upon your subject。 By that； and by the other letters which I have sent you； you will be at once so thoroughly introduced into the best French company； that you must take some pains if you will keep bad； but that is what I do not suspect you of。 You have； I am sure； too much right ambition to prefer low and disgraceful company to that of your superiors； both in rank and age。 Your character； and consequently your fortune； absolutely depends upon the company you keep； and the turn you take at Paris。 I do not in the least mean a grave turn； on the contrary； a gay； a sprightly； but； at the same time； an elegant and liberal one。
Keep carefully out of all scrapes and quarrels。 They lower a character extremely； and are particularly dangerous in France； where a man is dishonored by not resenting an affront； and utterly ruined by resenting it。 The young Frenchmen are hasty； giddy； and petulant； extremely national； and 'avantageux'。 Forbear from any national jokes or reflections； which are always improper； and commonly unjust。 The colder northern nations generally look upon France as a whistling； singing； dancing； frivolous nation； this notion is very far from being a true one； though many 'Petits maitres' by their behavior seem to justify it； but those very 'petits maltres'； when mellowed by age and experience； very often turn out very able men。 The number of great generals and statesmen； as well as excellent authors； that France has produced； is an undeniable proof； that it is not that frivolous； unthinking； empty nation that northern prejudices suppose it。 Seem to like and approve of everything at first； and I promise you that you will like and approve of many things afterward。
I expect that you will write to me constantly； once every week； which I desire may be every Thursday； and that your letters may inform me of your personal transactions： not of what you see； but of whom you see； and what you do。
Be your own monitor； now that you will have no other。 As to enunciation； I must repeat it to you again and again； that there is no one thing so necessary： all other talents； without that； are absolutely useless； except in your own closet。
It sounds ridiculously to bid you study with your dancing…master； and yet I do。 The bodily…carriage and graces are of infinite consequence to everybody； and more particularly to you。
Adieu for this time； my dear child。 Yours tenderly。
LETTER CXXIII
LONDON； November 12； O。 S。 1750
MY DEAR FRIEND： You will possibly think； that this letter turns upon strange； little； trifling objects； and you will think right； if you consider them separately； but if you take them aggregately； you will be convinced that as parts； which conspire to form that whole； called the exterior of a man of fashion； they are of importance。 I shall not dwell now upon these personal graces； that liberal air； and that engaging address； which I have so often recommended to you； but descend still lower； to your dress； cleanliness； and care of your person。
When you come to Paris； you may take care to be extremely well dressed； that is； as the fashionable people are； this does by no means consist in the finery； but in the taste； fitness； and manner of wearing your clothes； a fine suit ill…made； and slatternly or stiffly worn； far from adorning； only exposes the awkwardness of the wearer。 Get the best French tailor to make your clothes； whatever they are； in the fashion； and to fit you： and then wear them； button them； or unbutton them； as the genteelest people you see do。 Let your man learn of the best friseur to do your hair well； for that is a very material part of your dress。 Take care to have your stockings well gartered up； and your shoes well buckled； for nothing gives a more slovenly air to a man than ill…dressed legs。 In your person you must be accurately clean； and your teeth； hands； and nails； should be superlatively so； a dirty mouth has real ill consequences to the owner； for it infallibly causes the decay； as well as the intolerable pain of the teeth； and it is very offensive to his acquaintance； for it will most inevitably stink。 I insist； therefore； that you wash your teeth the first thing you do every morning； with a soft sponge and swarm water； for four or five minutes； and then wash your mouth five or six times。 Mouton； whom I desire you will send for upon your arrival at Paris； will give you an opiate； and a liquor to be used sometimes。 Nothing looks more ordinary； vulgar； and illiberal； than dirty hands； and ugly； uneven； and ragged nails： I do not suspect you of that shocking； awkward trick； of biting yours； but that is not enough： you must keep the ends of them smooth and clean； not tipped with black； as the ordinary people's always are。 The ends of your nails should be small segments of circles； which； by a very little care in the cutting； they are very easily brought to； every time that you wipe your hands； rub the skin round your nails backward； that it may not grow up； and shorten your nails too much。 The cleanliness of the rest of your person； which； by the way； will conduce greatly to your health； I refer from time to time to the bagnio。 My mentioning these particulars arises
