letters to his son, 1750-第13节
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〃In fine； the education of monarchies requires a certain politeness of behavior。 Man； a sociable animal； is formed to please in society； and a person that would break through the rules of decency； so as to shock those he conversed with； would lose the public esteem； and become incapable of doing any good。
〃But politeness； generally speaking； does not derive its original from so pure a source。 It arises from a desire of distinguishing ourselves。 It is pride that renders us polite； we are flattered with being taken notice of for a behavior that shows we are not of a mean condition； and that we have not been bred up with those who in all ages are considered as the scum of the people。
〃Politeness； in monarchies； is naturalized at court。 One man excessively great renders everybody else little。 Hence that regard which is paid to our fellow…subjects； hence that politeness； equally pleasing to those by whom； as to those toward whom； it is practiced； because it gives people to understand that a person actually belongs； or at least deserves to belong； to the court。
〃A court air consists in quitting a real for a borrowed greatness。 The latter pleases the courtier more than the former。 It inspires him with a certain disdainful modesty； which shows itself externally； but whose pride insensibly diminishes in proportion to his distance from the source of this greatness。
〃At court we find a delicacy of taste in everything； a delicacy arising from the constant use of the superfluities of life； from the variety； and especially the satiety of pleasures； from the multiplicity and even confusion of fancies； which； if they are not agreeable； are sure of being well received。
〃These are the things which properly fall within the province of education； in order to form what we call a man of honor； a man possessed of all the qualities and virtues requisite in this kind of government。
〃Here it is that honor interferes with everything； mixing even with people's manner of thinking； and directing their very principles。
〃To this whimsical honor it is owing that the virtues are only just what it pleases； it adds rules of its own invention to everything prescribed to us； it extends or limits our duties according to its own fancy； whether they proceed from religion； politics； or morality。
〃There is nothing so strongly inculcated in monarchies； by the laws； by religion； and honor； as submission to the Prince's will； but this very honor tells us； that the Prince never ought to command a dishonorable action； because this would render us incapable of serving him。
〃Crillon refused to assassinate the Duke of Guise； but offered to fight him。 After the massacre of St。 Bartholomew； Charles IX。； having sent orders to the governors in the several provinces for the Huguenots to be murdered； Viscount Dorte； who commanded at Bayonne； wrote thus to the King： 'Sire； Among the inhabitants of this town； and your Majesty's troops； I could not find so much as one executioner； they are honest citizens and brave soldiers。 We jointly； therefore； beseech your Majesty to command our arms and lives in things that are practicable。' This great and generous soul looked upon a base action as a thing impossible。
〃There is nothing that honor more strongly recommends to the nobility； than to serve their Prince in a military capacity。 And indeed this is their favorite profession； because its dangers； its success； and even its miscarriages； are the road to grandeur。 Yet this very law； of its own making； honor chooses to explain； and in case of any affront； it requires or permits us to retire。
〃It insists also； that we should be at liberty either to seek or to reject employments； a liberty which it prefers even to an ample fortune。
〃Honor； therefore； has its supreme laws； to which education is obliged to conform。 The chief of these are； that we are permitted to set a value upon our fortune； but are absolutely forbidden to set any upon our lives。
〃The second is； that when we are raised to a post or preferment； we should never do or permit anything which may seem to imply that we look upon ourselves as inferior to the rank we hold。
〃The third is； that those things which honor forbids are more rigorously forbidden； when the laws do not concur in the prohibition； and those it commands are more strongly insisted upon； when they happen not to be commanded by law。〃
Though our government differs considerably from the French； inasmuch as we have fixed laws and constitutional barriers for the security of our liberties and properties； yet the President's observations hold pretty near as true in England as in France。 Though monarchies may differ a good deal； kings differ very little。 Those who are absolute desire to continue so； and those who are not； endeavor to become so； hence the same maxims and manners almost in all courts： voluptuousness and profusion encouraged； the one to sink the people into indolence； the other into povertyconsequently into dependence。 The court is called the world here as well as at Paris； and nothing more is meant by saying that a man knows the world； than that he knows courts。 In all courts you must expect to meet with connections without friendship； enmities without hatred； honor without virtue； appearances saved； and realities sacrificed； good manners with bad morals； and all vice and virtues so disguised； that whoever has only reasoned upon both would know neither when he first met them at court。 It is well that you should know the map of that country； that when you come to travel in it； you may do it with greater safety。
From all this you will of yourself draw this obvious conclusion： That you are in truth but now going to the great and important school； the world； to which Westminster and Leipsig were only the little preparatory schools； as Marylebone； Windsor； etc。； are to them。 What you have already acquired will only place you in the second form of this new school； instead of the first。 But if you intend； as I suppose you do； to get into the shell； you have very different things to learn from Latin and Greek： and which require much more sagacity and attention than those two dead languages； the language of pure and simple nature； the language of nature variously modified and corrupted by passions； prejudices； and habits； the language of simulation and dissimulation： very hard； but very necessary to decipher。 Homer has not half so many； nor so difficult dialects； as the great book of the school you are now going to。 Observe； therefore； progressively； and with the greatest attention； what the best scholars in the form immediately above you do； and so on； until you get into the shell yourself。 Adieu。
Pray tell Mr。 Harte that I have received his letter of the 27th May； N。 S。； and that I advise him never to take the English newswriters literally； who never yet inserted any one thing quite right。 I have both his patent and his mandamus； in both which he is Walter； let the newspapers call him what they please。
LETTER CXVII
LONDON； July 9； O。 S。 1750。
MY DEAR FRIEND： I should not deserve that appellation in return from you； if I did not freely and explicitly inform you of every corrigible defect which I may either hear of； suspect； or at any time discover in you。 Those who； in the common course of the world； will call themselves your friends； or whom； according to the common notions of friendship； you may possibly think such； will never tell you of your faults； still less of your weaknesses。 But； on the contrary； more desirous to make you their friend； than to prove themselves yours； they will flatter both； and； in truth； not be sorry for either。 Interiorly； most people enjoy the inferiority of their best friends。 The useful and essential part of friendship； to you； is reserved singly for Mr。 Harte and myself： our relations to you stand pure and unsuspected of all private views。 In whatever we say to you； we can have no interest but yours。 We are therefore authorized to represent； advise； and remonstrate； and your reason must tell you that you ought to attend to and believe us。
I am credibly informed； that there is still a considerable hitch or hobble in your enunciation； and that when you speak fast you sometimes speak unintelligibly。 I have formerly and frequently laid my thoughts before you so fully upon this subject； that I can say nothing new upon it now。 I must therefore only repeat； that your whole depends upon it。 Your trade is to speak well； both in public and in private。 The manner of your speaking is full as important as the matter； as more people have ears to be tickled； than understandings to judge。 Be your productions ever so good； they will be of no use； if you stifle and strangle them in their birth。 The best compositions of Corelli； if ill executed and played out of tune； instead of touching； as they do when well performed； would only excite the indignation of the hearer's； when murdered by an unskillful performer。 But to murder your own productions； and that 'coram Populo'； is a MEDEAN CRUELTY； which Horace absolutely forbids。 Remember of what importance Demosthenes； and one of the Gracchi； thought ENUNCIATION； and read what stress Cicero and Quintilian lay upon it； ev
