the expression of emotion in man and animals-第63节
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e than the rest of the body； for it does not explain the fact of the hands rarely blushing。 With Europeans the whole body tingles slightly when the face blushes intensely； and with the races of men who habitually go nearly naked； the blushes extend over a much larger surface than with us。 These facts are； to a certain extent； intelligible； as the self…attention of primeval man； as well as of the existing races which still go naked； will not have been so exclusively confined to their faces； as is the case with the people who now go clothed。
＇25＇ Mr。 Bain （‘The Emotions and the Will；' 1865； p。 65） remarks on 〃the shyness of manners which is induced between the sexes 。。。。 from the influence of mutual regard； by the apprehension on either side of not standing well with the other。〃
＇26＇ See； for evidence on this subject； ‘The Descent of Man；' &c。； vol。 ii。 pp。 71； 341。
We have seen that in all parts of the world persons who feel shame for some moral delinquency； are apt to avert； bend down； or hide their faces； independently of any thought about their personal appearance。 The object can hardly be to conceal their blushes； for the face is thus averted or hidden under circumstances which exclude any desire to conceal shame； as when guilt is fully confessed and repented of。 It is； however； probable that primeval man before he had acquired much moral sensitiveness would have been highly sensitive about his personal appearance； at least in reference to the other sex； and he would consequently have felt distress at any depreciatory remarks about his appearance； and this is one form of shame。 And as the face is the part of the body which is most regarded； it is intelligible that any one ashamed of his personal appearance would desire to conceal this part of his body。 The habit having been thus acquired； would naturally be carried on when shame from strictly moral causes was felt； and it is not easy otherwise to see why under these circumstances there should be a desire to hide the face more than any other part of the body。
The habit； so general with every one who feels ashamed； of turning away； or lowering his eyes； or restlessly moving them from side to side； probably follows from each glance directed towards those present； bringing home the conviction that he is intently regarded； and he endeavours； by not looking at those present； and especially not at their eyes； momentarily to escape from this painful conviction。
_Shyness_。This odd state of mind； often called shamefacedness； or false shame； or _mauvaise honte_； appears to be one of the most efficient of all the causes of blushing。 Shyness is； indeed； chiefly recognized by the face reddening； by the eyes being averted or cast down； and by awkward； nervous movements of the body。 Many a woman blushes from this cause； a hundred； perhaps a thousand times； to once that she blushes from having done anything deserving blame； and of which she is truly ashamed。 Shyness seems to depend on sensitiveness to the opinion； whether good or bad； of others； more especially with respect to external appearance。 Strangers neither know nor care anything about our conduct or character； but they may； and often do； criticize our appearance： hence shy persons are particularly apt to be shy and to blush in the presence of strangers。 The consciousness of anything peculiar； or even new； in the dress； or any slight blemish on the person； and more especially； on the face points which are likely to attract the attention of strangers makes the shy intolerably shy。 On the other hand； in those cases in which conduct and not personal appearance is concerned； we are much more apt to be shy in the presence of acquaintances； whose judgment we in some degree value； than in that of strangers。 A physician told me that a young man； a wealthy duke； with whom he had travelled as medical attendant； blushed like a girl； when he paid him his fee； yet this young man probably would not have blushed and been shy； had he been paying a bill to a tradesman。 Some persons； however； are so sensitive； that the mere act of speaking to almost any one is sufficient to rouse their self…consciousness； and a slight blush is the result。
Disapprobation or ridicule； from our sensitiveness on this head； causes shyness and blushing much more readily than does approbation； though the latter with some persons is highly efficient。 The conceited are rarely shy； for they value themselves much too highly to expect depreciation。 Why a proud man is often shy； as appears to be the case； is not so obvious； unless it be that； with all his self…reliance； he really thinks much about the opinion of others although in a disdainful spirit。 Persons who are exceedingly shy are rarely shy in the presence of those with whom they are quite familiar； and of whose good opinion and sympathy they are perfectly assured； for instance； a girl in the presence of her mother。 I neglected to inquire in my printed paper whether shyness can be detected in the different races of man； but a Hindoo gentleman assured Mr。 Erskine that it is recognizable in his countrymen。
Shyness； as the derivation of the word indicates in several languages；＇27＇ is closely related to fear； yet it is distinct from fear in the ordinary sense。 A shy man no doubt dreads the notice of strangers； but can hardly be said to be afraid of them； he may be as bold as a hero in battle； and yet have no self…confidence about trifles in the presence of strangers。 Almost every one is extremely nervous when first addressing a public assembly； and most men remain so throughout their lives； but this appears to depend on the consciousness of a great coming exertion； with its associated effects on the system； rather than on shyness；＇28＇ although a timid or shy man no doubt suffers on such occasions infinitely more than another。 With very young children it is difficult to distinguish between fear and shyness； but this latter feeling with them has often seemed to me to partake of the character of the wildness of an untamed animal。 Shyness comes on at a very early age。 In one of my own children； when two years and three months old； I saw a trace of what certainly appeared to be shyness； directed towards myself after an absence from home of only a week。 This was shown not by a blush； but by the eyes being for a few minutes slightly averted from me。 I have noticed on other occasions that shyness or shamefacedness and real shame are exhibited in the eyes of young children before they have acquired the power of blushing。
＇27＇ H。 Wedgwood； Dict。 English Etymology； vol。 iii。 1865； p。 184。 So with the Latin word _verecundus_。
As shyness apparently depends on self…attention； we can perceive how right are those who maintain that reprehending children for shyness； instead of doing them any good； does much harm； as it calls their attention still more closely to themselves。 It has been well urged that 〃nothing hurts young people more than to be watched continually about their feelings； to have their countenances scrutinized； and the degrees of their sensibility measured by the surveying eye of the unmerciful spectator。 Under the constraint of such examinations they can think of nothing but that they are looked at； and feel nothing but shame or apprehension。〃＇29＇
＇28＇ Mr。 Bain （‘The Emotions and the Will；' p。 64） has discussed the 〃abashed〃 feelings experienced on these occasions； as well as the _stage…fright_ of actors unused to the stage。 Mr。 Bain apparently attributes these feelings to simple apprehension or dread。
＇29＇ ‘Essays on Practical Education；' by Maria and R。 L。 Edgeworth； new edit。 vol。 ii。 1822； p。 38。 Dr。 Burgess （ibid。 p。 187） insists strongly to the same effect。
_Moral causes： guilt_。With respect to blushing from strictly moral causes； we meet with the same fundamental principle as before； namely； regard for the opinion of others。 It is not the conscience which raises a blush； for a man may sincerely regret some slight fault committed in solitude； or he may suffer the deepest remorse for an undetected crime； but he will not blush。 〃I blush；〃 says Dr。 Burgess；＇30＇ 〃in the presence of my accusers。〃 It is not the sense of guilt； but the thought that others think or know us to be guilty which crimsons the face。 A man may feel thoroughly ashamed at having told a small falsehood； without blushing； but if he even suspects that he is detected he will instantly blush； especially if detected by one whom he reveres。
On the other hand； a man may be convinced that God witnesses all his actions； and he may feel deeply conscious of some fault and pray for forgiveness； but this will not； as a lady who is a great blusher believes； ever excite a blush。 The explanation of this difference between the knowledge by God and man of our actions lies； I presume； in man's disapprobation of immoral conduct being somewhat akin in nature to his depreciation of our personal appearance； so that through association both lead to similar results； whereas the disapprobation of God brings up no such association。
Many a person has blushed intensely when accused of some crime； though completely innocent of it。 Even the thought； as the lady before referred to has observed to me； that others think that w
