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living in lodgings察are practically without any opportunity of making the acquaintance of each other察or of any one of the other sex The street is no doubt the city substitute for the village green察and what a substitute it is

It has been bitterly said by one who knew well what he was talking about察 There are thousands of young men to´day who have no right to call any woman by her Christian name察except the girls they meet plying their dreadful trade in our public thoroughfares。;  As long as that is the case察vice has an enormous advantage over virtue察such an abnormal social arrangement interdicts morality and places a vast premium upon prostitution。  We must get back to nature if we have to cope with this ghastly evil。  There ought to be more opportunities afforded for healthy human intercourse between young men and young women察nor can Society rid itself of a great responsibility for all the wrecks of manhood and womanhood with which our streets are strewn察unless it does make some attempt to bridge this hideous chasm which yawns between the two halves of humanity。  The older I grow the more absolutely am I opposed to anything that violates the fundamental law of the family。 Humanity is composed of two sexes察and woe be to those who attempt to separate them into distinct bodies察making of each half one whole It has been tried in monasteries and convents with but poor success察yet what our fervent Protestants do not seem to see is that we are reconstructing a similar false system for our young people without the safeguards and the restraints of convent walls or the sanctifying influence of religious conviction。  The conditions of City life察the absence of the enforced companionship of the village and small town察the difficulty of young people finding harmless opportunities of friendly intercourse察all tends to create classes of celibates who are not chaste察and whose irregular and lawless indulgence of a universal instinct is one of the most melancholy features of the present state of society。  Nay察so generally is this recognised察that one of the terms by which one of the consequences of this unnatural state of things is popularly known is ;the social evil察─as if all other social evils were comparatively unworthy of notice in comparison to this。

While I have been busily occupied in working out my Scheme for the registration of labour察it has occurred to me more than once察why could not something like the same plan be adopted in relation to men who want wives and women who want husbands拭 Marriage is with most people largely a matter or opportunity。  Many a man and many a woman察who would察if they had come together察have formed a happy household察are leading at this moment miserable and solitary lives察suffering in body and in soul察in consequence of their exclusion from the natural state of matrimony。  Of course察the registration of the unmarried who wish to marry would be a matter of much greater delicacy than the registration of the joiners and stone´masons who wish to obtain work。  But the thing is not impossible。  I have repeatedly found in my experience that many a man and many a woman would only be too glad to have a friendly hint as to where they might prosecute their attentions or from which they might receive proposals。  In connection with such an agency察if it were establishedfor I am mot engaging to undertake this task I am only throwing out a possible suggestion as to the development in the direction of meeting a much needed want察there might be added training homes for matrimony。  My heart bleeds for many a young couple whom I see launching out into the sea of matrimony with no housewifery experience。  The young girls who leave our public elementary schools and go out into factories have never been trained to home duties察and yet察when taken to wife察are unreasonably expected to fill worthily the difficult positions of the head of a household and the mother of a family。  A month spent before marriage in a training home of housewifery would conduce much more to the happiness of the married life than the honeymoon which immediately follows it。

Especially is this the case with those who marry to go abroad and settle in a distant country。  I often marvel when I think of the utter helplessness of the modern woman察compared with the handiness of her grandmother。  How many of our girls can even bake a loaf拭 The baker has killed out one of our fundamental domestic arts。  But if you are in the Backwoods or in the Prairie or in the Bush察no baker's cart comes round every morning with the new´made bread察and I have often thought with sorrow of the kind of stuff which this poor wife must serve up to her hungry husband。  As it is with baking察so it is with washing察with milking察with spinning察with all the arts and sciences of the household察which were formerly taught察as a matter of course察to all the daughters who were born in the world。  Talk about woman's rights察one of the first of woman's rights is to be trained to her trade察to be queen of her household察and mother of her children。

Speaking of colonists leads me to the suggestion whether something could not be done to supply察on a well´organised system察the thousands of bachelor miners or the vast host of unmarried males who are struggling with the wilderness on the outskirts of civilisation察with capable wives from the overplus of marriageable females who abound in our great towns。  Woman supplied in adequate quantities is the great moraliser of Society察but woman doled out as she is in the Far West and the Australian bush察in the proportion of one woman to about a dozen men察is a fertile source of vice and crime。  Here again we must get back to nature察whose fundamental laws our social arrangements have rudely set on one side with consequences which as usual she does not fail to exact with remorseless severity。  There have always been born into the world and continue to be born boys and girls in fairly equal proportions察but with colonising and soldiering our men go away察leaving behind them a continually growing surplus of marriageable but unmarried spinsters察who cannot spin察and who are utterly unable to find themselves husbands。  This is a wide field on the discussion of which I must not enter。  I merely indicate it as one of those departments in which an intelligent philanthropy might find a great sphere for its endeavours察but it would be better not to touch it at all than to deal with it with light´hearted precipitancy and without due consideration of all the difficulties and dangers connected therewith。  Obstacles察however察exist to be overcome and converted into victories。  There is even a certain fascination about the difficult and dangerous察which appeals very strongly to all who know that it is the apparently insolvable difficulty which contains within its bosom the key to the problem which you are seeking to solve。


SECTION 8。WHITECHAPEL´BY´THE´SEA。

In considering the various means by which some substantial improvement can be made in the condition of the toiling masses察recreation cannot be omitted。  I have repeatedly had forced upon me the desirability of making it possible for them to spend a few hours occasionally by the seaside察or even at times three or four days。  Notwithstanding the cheapened rates and frequent excursions察there are multitudes of the poor who察year in and out察never get beyond the crowded city察with the exception of dragging themselves and their children now and then to the parks on holidays or hot summer evenings。  The majority察especially the inhabitants of the East of London察never get away from the sunless alleys and grimy streets in which they exist from year to year。 It is true that a few here and there of the adult population察and a good many of the children察have a sort of annual charity excursion to Epping Forest察Hampton Court察or perhaps to the sea。  But it is only the minority。  The vast number察while possessed of a passionate love of the sea察which only those who have mixed with them can conceive察pass their whole lives without having once looked over its blue waters察or watched its waves breaking at their feet。

Now I am not so foolish as to dream that it is possible to make any such change in Society as will enable the poor man to take his wife and children for a fortnight's sojourn察during the oppressive summer days察to brace them up for their winter's task察although this might be as desirable in their case as in that of their more highly favoured fellow´creatures。  But I would make it possible for every man察woman and child察to get察now and then察a day's refreshing change by a visit to that never´failing source of interest。  In the carrying out of this plan察we are met at the onset with a difficulty of some little magnitude察and that is the necessity of a vastly reduced charge in the cost of the journey。  To do anything effective we must be able to get a man from Whitechapel or Stratford to the sea´side and back for a shilling。

Unfortunately察London is sixty miles from the sea。  Suppose we take it at seventy miles。  This would involve a journey of one hundred and forty miles for the small sum of 1s。  Can this be done拭 I think it can察and done to pay the railway companies察otherwise there is no

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